So my boss force me to read a book.=.=" and chinese novel type somemore haizz, but i google it and got the summary, so i think it's the same thing. He keep saying that, this book will make you a man, and not a BOY like you are now. etc etc..but i read the book, soo damn loso, few sentences then quote another man story,few sentences then quote famous people stuff...=.= so the summary.
Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
Give honest and sincere appreciation.
Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Six Ways to Make People Like You
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Smile.
Remember that a person's name is, to him or her, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in the terms of the other person's interest.
Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking
Avoid arguments.
Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never tell someone that he or she is wrong.
If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
Begin in a friendly way.
Start with questions to which the other person will answer yes.
Let the other person do the talking.
Let the other person feel the idea is his/hers.
Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
Sympathize with the other person.
Appeal to noble motives.
Dramatize your ideas.
Throw down a challenge; don't talk negatively when a person is absent; talk only about the positive.
Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment
Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
Talk about your own mistakes first.
Call attention to other people's mistakes indirectly.
Ask questions instead of directly giving orders.
Let the other person save face.
Praise every improvement.
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
Encourage them by making their faults seem easy to correct.
Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest.
(Wikipedia)
omg reading this is sooo much easier than reading that 200pages novel book thingy. oh yeah and the title of this book is HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE by Dale Carnegie.
How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the first bestselling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1937, it has sold 15 million copies globally.
(omg)
Friday, January 28, 2011
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Realization..
Chinese New Year is a week away, and as a chinese, CNY is the real new year. Therefore, i need to recap what happened during the month of January 2011, quite a lot happened, somehow. I tried more things, become more health conscious but occasionally still do stupid things.
Since it's quite recent, so you can just scroll down to see the photos, waste of time really , to re post the pictures.
1.There is of course the blood donation for the first time in my life, later that month, my boss said that i only went because of the girls present that day, 4 actually, all of them, i invite one. and the cb boss talk crap there. @#$%&
2. twisted my ankle and wrist somehow? exercising, gym-ing or for whatever reasons, and ba guan at the same time.
3. Got Hep A shots, cause fraid of kena this easily preventable disease and costs only Rm 100+-, paid more for this injection, well kena conned, Rm40 as told by Collie the dog. Went to the dentist,for teeth checkups, and found out that my wisdoms teeth are really growing after soo many times of false alarms, but unfortunately, it's senget-ed, and need operations to remove them or i would have toothache forever!! So arranging time for that opearations. BOTH WISDOM TOOTH!! need to be remove =.=, and also one tooth decay.
4. Took quite alot of days off, and in case everyone is waiting for this story, i didn't quit cos of what the boss said, he basically challenged me, he said. I LECTURE YOU NOT BECAUSE OF ......, IT'S BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO LEARN....., YOU CAN DO TWO THINGS HERE, 1, WORK MORE BETTER/PRO/PERFECT ETC ETC OR YOU CAN QUIT.
It's quite true what he says la, the other reasons why i didn't quit also, and also turning 20 soon, can't anyhow do whatever i want, think before act. lol!.. Not bragging or what, people always think i'm one to complain/ rants etc etc etc, yes, i'm in fact that kind of people but how do i put this, not many truly knows me that well, everyone thinks i'm this carefree, stress-less dude, who justs sits around and complains. haha Well, i do have lots to think about, useless things some might say, lol....but i'm quite a complicated person!
5. "Just realize how beautiful the world could be even without you" - Jane
Stumble across this in Jane's profile, this is so true, so people are just not worth the effort, and that's why i cleaned my facebook friend's list and msn contacts, to find that, i have many unknown people in my life, some i don't even know when i added them, some never interacted, some just plain useless. So now my facebook contacts are left with only people i know( some still not so close, perhaps delete again some other day haha), Choose those who are worthy to stay in your life, cancel out all the negative ones.
6. Outings.
Lesser outings nowadays, although quite alot came back, but there's just no place to go, and i don't know what will i do once all my friends leave this place, i'm back to being lonely and bored all the time, haiz sad. For that reason, i went out with different circles of people, some i never thought we might go out for outings like the Science Class People. ( S.C.P) hahahahaha somehow i've gotten closer to SCP, through facebooks, and mostly blogs, partly because most of them blog and read my blog( and comment) and i do the same to theirs, so the interactions are there. But mostly through Chiayuin and Collie i suppose, at first it was C,yuin who acted as a bridge between CCP( C CLASS PEOPLE) and SCP, and i got to know CTD( Collie the Dog), then CTD act as a bridge for me to interact with yeetyang and Mick.i think? HAHAHAHAHA and thus the below outings~~~~ long story right!?
After Ah liyau sits there and block. HAHAHAHAHA
Same same Facebook pictures...see facebook for more~( reminder: wear bright colored shirt when going to the beach in the future. Reason: higher chance of rescue, coz people sees your more easily)
7. Glad to be alive.
If You read today and yesterday newspaper, you will see that, 2 people were washed/carried away at Berakas beach, at 8am, we went there at 2pm and played with the water until 4pm, not knowing what happened. when we went there, i was curios of why so many police/bomba/divers were there, and not much people playing in the sea, and when we walked by, everyone is like staring at us? But i always thinks people are staring at us one, so i ignore lor...
Then we play play in the water, then the bomba asked us to come back, not that we went very far out, but i was constantly reminding myself not to go out to far, coz will die!! i remind others as well i think?? hmmm...really, BULLY MOUNTAIN DON'T BULLY WATER( TRANSLATE)
Was very lucky to be alive!! really! coz i read the newspaper, the people was washed away DURING/WHEN taking photos!!! they were not even in the water!! wtf!!1 imagine us!! stupidly playing in the water!!! omg!! really dumb! haizz...
I've been thinking bout how fragile life is after that, one's future is very important, cherish life more!! one of the reasons why this post is sooo long...and alot of decisions had been made is because of this incident. To secure my future, i went and open an HSBC account yesterday and deposited $200 inside! yes like finally=.=!! and i will have $600 inside before my 20th Birthday!!! yeah!! lol!!!
8. NOT GOING BACK TO SIBU FOR CNY.
i have to work hard to achieve $600 to be in my bank account before march 22 so i need to work work hard!! so my whole family is leaving to sibu on jan 29th saturday, so i will be ALONE! at home for the whole cny, wow, another FIRST TIME OF 2011...i will be eating mee goreng for tuan yuan fan alone watching tv,..i think..wow...wow...sacrifices i make.....lol! Soooo i think i need to plan what i need to do alone at home for 1 week!! omg!!!
what else...yeap, kinda a wordy posts.
bye
Since it's quite recent, so you can just scroll down to see the photos, waste of time really , to re post the pictures.
1.There is of course the blood donation for the first time in my life, later that month, my boss said that i only went because of the girls present that day, 4 actually, all of them, i invite one. and the cb boss talk crap there. @#$%&
2. twisted my ankle and wrist somehow? exercising, gym-ing or for whatever reasons, and ba guan at the same time.
3. Got Hep A shots, cause fraid of kena this easily preventable disease and costs only Rm 100+-, paid more for this injection, well kena conned, Rm40 as told by Collie the dog. Went to the dentist,for teeth checkups, and found out that my wisdoms teeth are really growing after soo many times of false alarms, but unfortunately, it's senget-ed, and need operations to remove them or i would have toothache forever!! So arranging time for that opearations. BOTH WISDOM TOOTH!! need to be remove =.=, and also one tooth decay.
4. Took quite alot of days off, and in case everyone is waiting for this story, i didn't quit cos of what the boss said, he basically challenged me, he said. I LECTURE YOU NOT BECAUSE OF ......, IT'S BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO LEARN....., YOU CAN DO TWO THINGS HERE, 1, WORK MORE BETTER/PRO/PERFECT ETC ETC OR YOU CAN QUIT.
It's quite true what he says la, the other reasons why i didn't quit also, and also turning 20 soon, can't anyhow do whatever i want, think before act. lol!.. Not bragging or what, people always think i'm one to complain/ rants etc etc etc, yes, i'm in fact that kind of people but how do i put this, not many truly knows me that well, everyone thinks i'm this carefree, stress-less dude, who justs sits around and complains. haha Well, i do have lots to think about, useless things some might say, lol....but i'm quite a complicated person!
5. "Just realize how beautiful the world could be even without you" - Jane
Stumble across this in Jane's profile, this is so true, so people are just not worth the effort, and that's why i cleaned my facebook friend's list and msn contacts, to find that, i have many unknown people in my life, some i don't even know when i added them, some never interacted, some just plain useless. So now my facebook contacts are left with only people i know( some still not so close, perhaps delete again some other day haha), Choose those who are worthy to stay in your life, cancel out all the negative ones.
6. Outings.
Lesser outings nowadays, although quite alot came back, but there's just no place to go, and i don't know what will i do once all my friends leave this place, i'm back to being lonely and bored all the time, haiz sad. For that reason, i went out with different circles of people, some i never thought we might go out for outings like the Science Class People. ( S.C.P) hahahahaha somehow i've gotten closer to SCP, through facebooks, and mostly blogs, partly because most of them blog and read my blog( and comment) and i do the same to theirs, so the interactions are there. But mostly through Chiayuin and Collie i suppose, at first it was C,yuin who acted as a bridge between CCP( C CLASS PEOPLE) and SCP, and i got to know CTD( Collie the Dog), then CTD act as a bridge for me to interact with yeetyang and Mick.i think? HAHAHAHAHA and thus the below outings~~~~ long story right!?
After Ah liyau sits there and block. HAHAHAHAHA 
Same same Facebook pictures...see facebook for more~( reminder: wear bright colored shirt when going to the beach in the future. Reason: higher chance of rescue, coz people sees your more easily)
7. Glad to be alive.
If You read today and yesterday newspaper, you will see that, 2 people were washed/carried away at Berakas beach, at 8am, we went there at 2pm and played with the water until 4pm, not knowing what happened. when we went there, i was curios of why so many police/bomba/divers were there, and not much people playing in the sea, and when we walked by, everyone is like staring at us? But i always thinks people are staring at us one, so i ignore lor...
Then we play play in the water, then the bomba asked us to come back, not that we went very far out, but i was constantly reminding myself not to go out to far, coz will die!! i remind others as well i think?? hmmm...really, BULLY MOUNTAIN DON'T BULLY WATER( TRANSLATE)
Was very lucky to be alive!! really! coz i read the newspaper, the people was washed away DURING/WHEN taking photos!!! they were not even in the water!! wtf!!1 imagine us!! stupidly playing in the water!!! omg!! really dumb! haizz...
I've been thinking bout how fragile life is after that, one's future is very important, cherish life more!! one of the reasons why this post is sooo long...and alot of decisions had been made is because of this incident. To secure my future, i went and open an HSBC account yesterday and deposited $200 inside! yes like finally=.=!! and i will have $600 inside before my 20th Birthday!!! yeah!! lol!!!
8. NOT GOING BACK TO SIBU FOR CNY.
i have to work hard to achieve $600 to be in my bank account before march 22 so i need to work work hard!! so my whole family is leaving to sibu on jan 29th saturday, so i will be ALONE! at home for the whole cny, wow, another FIRST TIME OF 2011...i will be eating mee goreng for tuan yuan fan alone watching tv,..i think..wow...wow...sacrifices i make.....lol! Soooo i think i need to plan what i need to do alone at home for 1 week!! omg!!!
what else...yeap, kinda a wordy posts.
bye
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Reasons for not working~
So it's the 3rd day of me in miri, i'm not in holidays, im stuck here, coz my car is in maintenance.
Miri flood and we are stuck~ that's one of the reasons.lol!!
I went for injection!! yes! i feel healthier now!! i go for Hepatitis A vaccine, do you know, if you eat many shells/clams,seafood, possibilities of getting Hep A is very high!!!?? and do you know! HEP A transfer to saliva, so kissing, drinking soup, etc etc will dio this kind of thing!? and this disease is 100times more easy to kena compare to HIV..whoaa.....
and it costs Rm 140 for this injection, so worth lor~~ haha
Waiting to go back to Brunei and work~~~ HAHAHAHA
Bye
I went for injection!! yes! i feel healthier now!! i go for Hepatitis A vaccine, do you know, if you eat many shells/clams,seafood, possibilities of getting Hep A is very high!!!?? and do you know! HEP A transfer to saliva, so kissing, drinking soup, etc etc will dio this kind of thing!? and this disease is 100times more easy to kena compare to HIV..whoaa.....
and it costs Rm 140 for this injection, so worth lor~~ haha
Waiting to go back to Brunei and work~~~ HAHAHAHA
Bye
Thursday, January 13, 2011
23wfwqsdwfeg
The more i think bout it, the more i ...........must stop complaining.
So anyways, didn't go to work coz.....
went for acupucture thingy, there's a reason why i say i'm in pain everyday, coz im really in pain everyday......
i somehow twisted my ankle.without knowing it.
wrist....My new blood looks more pinkish!!
my back!
so i got bandages...
Tada! again ba guan
Still feeling a bit bek chek+ all !@$#$#%$#. still don't know why.
no one understands me....haiz
Bye
So anyways, didn't go to work coz.....
went for acupucture thingy, there's a reason why i say i'm in pain everyday, coz im really in pain everyday......
i somehow twisted my ankle.without knowing it.
my back!
so i got bandages...
Tada! again ba guan
Still feeling a bit bek chek+ all !@$#$#%$#. still don't know why.
no one understands me....haiz
Bye
Monday, January 10, 2011
Coz i'm a strong baby!
Last Saturday, there was a blood donation campaign at work, so being a kind hearted fellow and also because i've never tried it before and can escape work and become more healthy, and can save people and can share my SPECIAL-ness with some lucky people who received my blood.......HAHAHAHAHA i decided to donate
And because i'm kind again, i asked quite a few people to join me! Alas, no guys, 4 of my friends made it. 2 from rival company, and Winnie and Judy.
We were asked to fill in a form, asking all types of personal questions. Then the doctor/nurses do this and that and finally the POKING! with freakishly big needle!
SEE MY ARM! RED LIAO! they tied my arm(see the red-ness) i wore that spec to hide my tears. LOL!
Was crying!!! HAHAHAHAHA
AH-HA! see the big needle or not!?!
Winnie and Judy also there! Unfortunately, Winnie cannot donate.(abit blur/shaky coz my blood was being pumped out of ma body during the photo was taken)
My blood very warm one! coz i kind-hearted, can feel the warmness of my blood through the bag you know!? hahahha. Anyways, it was a very good experience, and i think i will start donating my blood every once in a while now, coz there are sooo many benefits to others and most importantly MYSELF!and i don't get dizzy or what after this..HOOT x 3
The FIRST, FIRST TIME experience i lost in 2011!!
FYI! I DIDN'T CRY!!!! hahahahaha coz im strong baby!!! lalalalala
Saw this in HSBC the other day, makes me wanna work toward goal no.1!! really!! HAHAHAHA
HAVE TO WORK!
BYE!
Friday, January 7, 2011
Still tired..
Ahhhh still tired!!!For 3 days, i went home at 7, then sleep at 10 ish, still tired!!! i wonder what's wrong!!!
The start of 2011! should read the horoscope thingy liao..to see my health thingy! not that i trust it 100%
One of the reasons, should be the quite heavy workloads.
and yes, the files are laid out deliberately, hahahahha what! because after finishing my work only i take pictures ma!
The files! .......
Anyways, was suppose to go ICC for thelame expo(although sibeh wuliao but also need to go coz there's nothing else to do), but no jadi , coz malas+ raining , ended up watching THE TOURIST, it's nice i guess, but i way too tired+ uncomfy to watch..lol, and OMG at angelina jolie...HOT cannot use to describe her!! i can't find the photo's also. You have to watch it!!!
It's not quite a spy movie, not quite a love movie, not quite a comedy....but it's ok la..not bad, coz..........................lazy to explain.
6.5/10? lol/..hmmm
want to sleep...
Bye
The start of 2011! should read the horoscope thingy liao..to see my health thingy! not that i trust it 100%
One of the reasons, should be the quite heavy workloads.
maybe it's the new year, i need to check and do all the invoices(yes i do invoices), chasing payment( so weird to do this)
The files! .......
Anyways, was suppose to go ICC for the
It's not quite a spy movie, not quite a love movie, not quite a comedy....but it's ok la..not bad, coz..........................lazy to explain.
6.5/10? lol/..hmmm
want to sleep...
Bye
Sunday, January 2, 2011
New year( UPDATED)
Woot, Happy New Year. First post of 2011
and my new year presents are...
I'm officially a SLEEP TALKER!!at first it was just a few phrases blurted out but now coz of exhaustion and high stress level, i'm sleep talking the whole night!!! so my mom told me!
Tips to reduce sleep talking
Reduce stress levels as much as possible.
Do not partake of a heavy meal before bedtime.
Follow a proper sleep routine.
Get proper rest as deficiency of sleep increases somniloquy.
What!? how come i got exhaustion and high stress level!?!
Sooo, must reduce outings and work LESS!
and i haven't got my NOVEMBER salary! wtf! that's the reason of the high stress level..><"
So Dec 31 pass by just like that, we didn;t even realize it's already 12am, soo like that nia..hahaha...
left my iphone cable at jeremy's....== no pictures lo..
Rajin like what! open CC!!! play games!
i think this was on jan 1st..or 2nd.hahha
no more photos!
hmmm, some of my unresolved problems, just disappears when the clock strike 12am on the 31st, felt like a big rock had been lifted off my shoulders, haha wtf.So yeah, well i guess life goes on.no point to keep hanging on to it.yay.
BB
and my new year presents are...
I'm officially a SLEEP TALKER!!at first it was just a few phrases blurted out but now coz of exhaustion and high stress level, i'm sleep talking the whole night!!! so my mom told me!
Tips to reduce sleep talking
Reduce stress levels as much as possible.
Do not partake of a heavy meal before bedtime.
Follow a proper sleep routine.
Get proper rest as deficiency of sleep increases somniloquy.
What!? how come i got exhaustion and high stress level!?!
Sooo, must reduce outings and work LESS!
and i haven't got my NOVEMBER salary! wtf! that's the reason of the high stress level..><"
So Dec 31 pass by just like that, we didn;t even realize it's already 12am, soo like that nia..hahaha...
left my iphone cable at jeremy's....== no pictures lo..
Got my cables back, so here's a few photos!
i think this was on jan 1st..or 2nd.hahha
no more photos!
hmmm, some of my unresolved problems, just disappears when the clock strike 12am on the 31st, felt like a big rock had been lifted off my shoulders, haha wtf.So yeah, well i guess life goes on.no point to keep hanging on to it.yay.
BB
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